The Goddess Parvati has been seeking me out. I have been concerning myself slightly about being a devotee of hers. My archetype has a natural communication with her that has been built over many lifetimes. She has shown me ever so gently the imbalances of the masculine and feminine energies and a way they may be fixed. Today as I did my Full Moon in Cancer reading for my Youtube Channel I was looking at the opposition of the Sun, Mercury, Pluto, and Saturn in Capricorn. And I realized that I have been feeling overwhelmed with healing my emotional wounds and Parvati has brought it to my attention that there has been a lack of devotion to the Feminine Arts not only on my part but on the part of the women of earth. Devotion and discipline go hand and hand. This is where the Cancer/Capricorn Axis comes in. Cancer is ruled by the moon and is The Mother (parvati, shakti) energy. Without discipline (capricorn, shiva, father) the emotions are all over the place. Lunacy ensues. And without a nurturing, nourishing mother the father principle becomes a controlling tyrant. This we can clearly see within our society. I see groups being formed to assist women in remembering the feminine principles as a way to attract provider/protector men. Resting in your feminine energy to receive is just the beginning. Being a beautiful mother and homemaker are the basic feminine arts. I see that there is something missing from this way of thinking. Devotion to development of character. Without cultivating and honing your power and channeling your strength (masculine) through the feminine arts the same cycle is doomed to happen again. The masculine will become overgrown and overpower the self-made powerless feminine who sits in wait for direction to the nearest nail salon or mall. If you read the mythological story of Parvati and shiva. Shiva couldn’t be bothered with the petty concerns of feelings he didn’t want lose self-control or focus because he was too busy focusing on cultivating his peace after a heartbreak of losing his wife Sati. Parvati tried to shoot him with arrows of love, send him flowers, bless him with her feminine wows and all it did was annoy him, and downright piss off. She realized she had to focus on herself and stop paying attention to him. She went away into the woods and began to do her rituals (Pooja) and penance everyday. This went on for some years. Finally Shiva was attracted to her determination and her penance. Parvati purified her character, built up her strength, her trust in herself, gained knowledge, self-understanding, found her own inner peace. She no longer needed him to validate her by being his wife. This is the strength of a disciplined moon energy. It takes discipline to truly be feminine. Just like it takes discipline to be masculine. Women can’t ask of a man what they aren’t willing to do in their feminine way. What are some examples of Feminine Arts?
- Belly Dance
- Mother
- Homemaker
- Wife
- Fans
- Painting
- Singing
- Writing
- Acting
- Seduction
- High Priestess
- Swords
- Yogini
- Playing Instruments
- Sewing
The beauty of a woman is inspirational to the masculine and does require discipline. I also believe that if thats the only thing that a man is attracted to it can feel like a psychic attack against the true self of the person being objectified. This puts an over emphasis and heavy burden on the sacral chakra which can have a depleting affect on the creativity for bother parties.
To heal the world there needs to be an allowance of a lot of discipline (capricorn, Shiva) to feminine self-expression (moon, Parvati).
The Spiritual Bath Tea – My Fairy Godmother Taught me To Care for Myself – would be a great way jumpstart your journey if this article is at all triggering to you. Soak yourself in the herbal waters of the Divine Mother as you make peace with where you are and what you would like to endeavor. Peace to You in all your experiences!
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Aya Bellené 
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